
Dear Daniel,
Tonight, for the last time, I put you to bed as an only child.
Tomorrow is the day we’ve been anticipating for the past several months. Your baby brother or sister (we don’t know which one yet) will be joining our family. It’s an exciting time for all of us.
We’ve been trying to prepare you for this day for a while now. We’ve been telling you that we’re having a baby, and you’ve been observing a lot of changes in the house. You’ve watched us carry in diapers en masse. You’ve seen the nursery taking shape. You’ve noticed us bringing down some of your old baby toys from the attic. You’ve witnessed mom’s belly getting bigger. You’ve repeatedly asked, “Is your baby moving, mommy?”
Tomorrow is the culmination of all that. A new life, another precious treasure from God, will finally be here. I still can’t believe it’s been more than three years since we went through all of this with you.
I talked to you about some of these things again tonight as I tucked you into bed. I told you that things will be changing around here. I talked about how mommy will be in the hospital for a few days, and when she gets home how you’ll need to be a good helper to her. I told you how, as a big brother, it will be your job to look out for and protect your baby brother or sister, and how you’ll have so many things to teach him or her as your sibling grows up.
And I reminded you how much I loved you, and always will.
I don’t pretend to understand what’s going on in the mind and the emotions of a 3-year-old. I’ve heard of some children who make transitions like this seamlessly. For others, it poses more problems. After all, for a child used to being the center of attention, I can see how it might be difficult to share your time with mom and dad with someone else. I have no idea how fully you understand what’s taking place, and I don’t know how you’ll respond.
Regardless, I pray that you’ll grow to love your baby brother or baby sister with a love that will last the rest of your life. I can already imagine all the laughs the baby will provide for all of us, you included. You’ll have many happy memories of these years you’ll spend growing up together.
Though it might take some adjustments at first, I have every confidence that the baby will only enhance all of our lives. And even though there will be a new child for your mom and me to love, that will never diminish the depth of our love for you.
I’m praying that God will be gracious to you and help you through these changing days. So get ready, little buddy. Life is about to get a lot more interesting.
Love always,
Dad