Tim Ellsworth

10 is the new 15 as kids grow up faster

November 27th, 2006

An AP story examines how children’s exposure to sexually-charged images and music are forcing them to grow up faster.

Natalie Wickstrom, a 10-year-old in suburban Atlanta, says girls her age sometimes wear clothes that are “a little inappropriate.” She describes how one friend tied her shirt to show her stomach and “liked to dance, like in rap videos.”

Girls in her class also talk about not only liking but “having relationships” with boys.

“There’s no rules, no limitations to what they can do,” says Natalie, who’s also in fifth grade.

Her mom, Billie Wickstrom, says the teen-like behavior of her daughter’s peers, influences her daughter - as does parents’ willingness to allow it.

“Some parents make it hard on those of us who are trying to hold their kids back a bit,” she says.

And therein lies the problem, one that presents tremendous challenges to parents — so many parents aren’t responsible enough to shield their children from material to which they should not be exposed. And so those parents who do adequately protect their kids from the media’s influence must protect their kids from other kids, as well.

May God give us wisdom as parents, for the task before us is becoming increasingly difficult.

One Response to “10 is the new 15 as kids grow up faster”

  1. Laz says:

    It seems like the parents don’t get blamed for much of this mess.

    Everyone wants to talk about the music videos and the media that these kids consume but who is buying it for them? It’s not them, I believe that this current crop of kids is the most coddled generation. A generation that persuades their parents to buy them the latest _____ so they don’t fall back in the brutally darwinian environment that is the school’s food chain. Just think about all the smut that parents will buy their beloved children this coming holiday season.

    I’ve heard parents say that this is the most important f(x) they can perform for their kids. Why? Because being popular and with the ‘in-crowd’ helps them develop the social skills their kids will need to be successful in the market place, sigh…